Last Updated: October 2024
By Patrick G. - giftpickr Team Member
Knowing the appropriate etiquette related to wedding gifts can sometimes be tricky. Here’s a short guide to gifting etiquette for weddings in the U.S.
Do stick to the registry: Most couples in the U.S. create a wedding registry, which makes it easy to choose a gift they truly want. It’s generally best to select something from the registry to ensure your gift is something that the couple actually wants or needs.
Don’t bring large gifts to the wedding: In the U.S., it's customary to send your gift to the couple’s home rather than lugging it to the ceremony. If you do bring it to the wedding, a card box or gift table will likely be available to receive envelopes or small presents.
Do send the gift on time: Ideally, send your wedding gift within two months of the event. You can also send it up to a year later, but earlier is always better for avoiding awkward delays.
Don’t overspend or underspend: While there’s no strict rule about how much to spend on a wedding gift, aim for a thoughtful contribution based on your relationship with the couple. A close friend or family member may give a more significant gift, while a coworker or distant friend may spend less.
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